Anonymous said: So I have a crush on one of my best friends who is a girl (I'm also a girl), and I'm not sure what to do. I'm really confused with my sexuality, and what to announce it as I guess. I'm pretty sure I fit most under bisexuality or pansexuality. My confusion is making me doubt if my crush is real or not, but it feels EXACTLY like when I have a crush on a boy. I don't want to tell her how I feel, because I don't want to possibly ruin our friendship. What should I do?
what sexuality is your friend? x
togetherforeverjck said: To the anon you can bleach your upper lip hair as well! You can get bleach cream at drugstore walmart whatever :)
Anonymous said: Are you naturally skinny? Hope you share your secrets for that wonderful body.
As a kid i was always naturally skinny eating whatever i want etc, went to uni and started putting weight on, so i stopped eating ready meals and replaced chocolate and crisps with fruit and nuts and started bikram yoga (where you sweat loads) and lost the weight i wanted to lose x
Anonymous said: I'm not ready and I told him I wasn't but I feel like it'll be awkward between us now and I really don't want it to be. I'm not worried he'll try to force me into anything but I don't want him to think I don't love him because of this. I won't do it just because he says if you loved me you would though. I know better than that. I've just never gone through this before. (I'm 16 btw)
tell him how you feel and that you love him and you want to wait, if he doesnt respect that then hes not worth your time x
Anonymous said: So me and my boyfriend babe been dating for about 3 months now and we have done everything except sex and I have a feeling that it's going to happen soon. I'm a virgin and I'm very scared, about if hurting a lot, do you have any tips on making it hurt less? Thanks x
only do it if you want to and you’re comfortable, when you’re ready use lots of lube and tell him to be gentle x
Anonymous said: I haven't fingered myself but I rub my clit to orgasm and this guy I like might finger me soon and I'm not prepared and I won't know how to react help ? :(
just tell him you don’t want him to! x
Anonymous said: I'm 15 and my bf is 17 and we've been dating for a month, do you think it's to soon to give him a blowjob because I'm ready for it and he is too so should I??
if you’re 100% ready and you’re 100% comfortable then sure! x
Anonymous said: Okay so I've been fingered once but I don't think that has anything to do with it. This is so embarrassing to say but my down there smells really musky and gross, how do I get rid of it? I wash it regularly on the outside as it's unhealthy to wash it on the inside. I'm too embarrassed to go to a doctor! What do I do? What would you do? I mean would vagasil work? Or any other cream! I'm so self conscious about it! Help me. Sorry for such a long question
you have to go get checked out, if you’re too embarrassed to go to a doctor go to a sexual health clinic, they look at vagina’s all day long and have seen thousands, its their job, so don’t be embarrassed! x
Anonymous said: Hey kinda weird question, but whatever... Ok so my boyfriend and I makeout and stuff like that, but whenever we makeout slowly and somebody adds tongue, he makes sure his tongue is really fast and writhing around awkwardly in my mouth, even when I try to slow it down. It's not really in the moment, so how do I tell him to slow it down and just do it in a not TOTALLY awkward way as to not hurt his feelings?
just be honest and tell him how you like to kiss x
Anonymous said: im a girl and i shave down there because i don't want any unwanted hairs to stick out when i wear a bathing suit. i also am sexually active with my boyfriend. i get red bumps and it hurts really bad when i shave down there but i know im not old enough to get waxed. what do i do?
make sure you are using clean shavers, a good shaving foam and water. and like i said in a recent post trying shaving in the direction your hair is growing rather than the opposite direction, won’t be as much of a clean cut but you wont get shavers rash x
Anonymous said: Uhh well i constantly crave more intense kissing, but i feel awkward when the guy trys to put his hand in my pants. sometimes i want to but sometimes i dont. then once im alone i wish we had done more. ugh can u tell me what these feelings are? thanks so much.
you’re just not comfortable yet, wait until you’re comfortable and in the mean time enjoy kissing :)
Anonymous said: so i have some hair around my lips and face (which is totally normal i know) but im afraid that boys won't like me for it.. what do i do and is it gonna be a problem? (this is so random srry)
you don’t have to do anything with it but if its really really bothering you maybe try some hair removal cream or waxing? x